Testimonial : Garg

Priyanka Garg: Well, Gargggggg is one of the few bestest people I have known .. I am very lucky to have friend like her ... She is beauty with brains .. intelligent .. sweet as sugar ... bubbly ... cheerful ... lively ... I think I can go on and on on this list ...

My friendship with her has outgrown in last 2 years from "Hi Friend". I miss her "Hi" though :( She is the one of the fews who was always with me and always understood me in last 2 years ... she has the power to listen to my all cribbings patiently ... and the one who always brought smile to my face whenever m sad ... love u gal :) With her u can go on and on and can just rely upon her ... she is the gem ...

She is also senti with her birthday wishes for other .. she would call 10 mins before 12 on ur birthday and would just do stupid chit chat as she wants to wish u first ... crazyyyyy ... but yeah I love it sweeetoooo .... amazinggggg :)

Well not to mention, this girl is still a kid ... her passion for testimonials has not gone ... lolz lolz

love u garg .... cheeers :)

Kids

So finally sri ganesh of my much wanted desire of having blogs ... I always liked reading other people blogs, I pen down my thougts but never got enough motivavtion to blog it ... probably it was my just laziness or I should be happy for the moment as my laptop not is working, otherwise I would have just written one more informal file into my folder :)

The topic of my first blogs is "why to have kids ?" It was a family get together and over there, there was some discussion going upon kids and that made me think seriously upon this topic as a parent. It has been a while since I am thinking about this topic but never thought about it as seriously as I did it yesterday.

'BABY' is a simple bio product formed and all breed & species of animal give birth to their younger ones. Every parent love their kids, take care of them irrespective of species of animal.

When life evolved, human parents were also just similar to any other animal parent. It was a product formed due to opposite sex attraction. But are the things same with humans still ? In the biological process, yes. Love and affection for the kids, yes. But may be different in the way human child is brought up, and most importantly, human child is no more an unaware product and birth of human child is controllable.

Then why couple still want a kid ? Present couples don't run out of the fear that if they will not reproduce then it will lead to end of human race.

Does it act as an adhesive for binding the couple together forever?Or they want a kid on which they can bank upon in their tough times? Is it a sign of love between a couple? Or does they want to have it as it will give a sense of maturity, adulthood ?

Is it the genuine love, affection they feel for kids ? Normally people really like kids, and thus they wish to have their own. It is really a joyous moment to see them when they do cute things, when they talk, when they walk, when they do naughty things, etc. I also enjoy these moments. But having a child is not about the cuteness, it is a responsibility of blooming the seed into the flower with the desire of imparting the best colors to it.

Is it a need in terms of old man stick? If yes, then I would term it to as bad selfish desire.


It is been often said that kids form the family which gives satisfaction, parents work hard for their kids, kids form parents happiness etc. Is it this society mindset that flows inside most of us and has been so much engraved inside our beliefs that we feel incomplete family if we don't have kids ?

Or may be, it is simply a human nature to have kids which is more than a byproduct of physical attraction and something that cant be tampered.

These are some of my questions and thoughts on "why kids", may be with time my mind set will also take colors of society mind set on this topic or will show the sign of human nature.